Monday, June 14, 2010

Friendship????


Incidents in my Life make me to think, Am i reacting in a wrong way? Am i Hurting people so easily.? But my innersense shouts "You are Correct!!"

People who know me so well, Can very well understand me.. Is this statement correct? Is there any possible way to understand your neighbour or colleague or friend completely..? I dont think its possible!! There are always misunderstandings between people. Whomever you speak with mom,dad,sister,lover ,husband or a complete Stranger..Nobody can match completely with our thoughts and actions.

Despite of these misunderstandings, People succeed in relationships. I found many Quotes for having Smooth relationships.. I would like to share one of them here..

There's one sad truth in life I've found

While journeying east and west -

The only folks we really wound

Are those we love the best.

We flatter those we scarcely know,

We please the fleeting guest,

And deal full many a thoughtless blow

To those who love us best...

I Strongly believe any problem can be solved if spoken directly.. It grows bigger when it reach us from a third Person. I request People to give your suggestions for having healthy relationships
Last two weeks was very terrible.. Thats why this Post.. Happy thing from my end is Going Home this weekend :) :) Mummy Mummy :) :)

Sunday, June 6, 2010

TV SHOWS

This post is about few TV shows i saw recently in TV. People who love to watch them Kindly bare with the post!!
1.DEAL OR NODEAL
This show is fully based on luck to win an amount of 50,00000. As shown in the Image 26 Boxes will be there, it contains 26 different amount starting from 1 rupee to 50,00000. Participant have to choose one box for them, they will open the remaining 25 Boxes to know the amount in his/her box(Silly!!) . Person hosting the show will make the participant to Make a deal with an amount to quit from game with this amount. Participants will expose their emotions (crying!!) how badly they need that money!!! One day i watched the Show, as usual the Participant was crying Saying"Oru car vanga mudiyalayae!!!"(not able to buy a car!!). There are so many people who suffers for Food itself!!! She was crying So badly for not having a car!! Most Important part of it,Once she started Crying Sad Background Music as if she lost her Husband!!! I am not a person who hate Game shows.. I love watching them.. Advertising the Show with tears of people is not fair. The worst part of it is, the show is telecasted in all the languages with different host!!! There is also a 27th box, its for viewers who watch this show.. They have to find the amount in 27th Box with four options for them like 5,5,500,5000. They will never open the box in the show. If you want to know the amount in 27th box they have to buy next day's XYZ newspaper. I have seen different ways of motivating People to read a newspaper.. This show is motivating people in a different way such that they get profit out of it!!! The aim of the show is not giving 50,00000 to one person rather gaining more than that in every show!!! I stopped watching the show.. Media can make us mad very easily!!!
Dance Shows
There are so many dance shows in all channels in tamil like jodino1,2,3,4.... manada mayilada.. 70% a guy and girl will dance and few shows solo performance will be there.. Participants will be some TV artists and there will be few judges to comment on their performance!! Most of the time they telecast What's happening behind the stage, Like how artists are practising etc.etc. They wil advertise the show Like "Fight between Girl and Guy in rehersal!! Whether the pair will dance or not!! Twist in the Show!! Sometimes the Judges will comment Badly that time they advertise like " XYZ shouted at WXR Performance!!! XYZ leaves the show angrily!!! Watch it!! After lot of advertisements like this.. People forget that its a dance show!!! They watch it to see some gossips it wont be truthful also.. Few shows they advertise the Setup of the Stage like waterfall in the stage!!! Watch the show!! In that show unneccesarily the guy will stand in that waterfall for few moments with full wet clothes he cant perform also!!! But judges will comment Extaordinary performance hats off etc..etc.. I watched one Hindi dance show with my roomate It was same there also!!! One of the judge was shouting i am leaving the show because some paricipant performed badly or Judge will shout "I have wasted my time by sitting here" I guess judges are paid for the show, they are not sitting for time pass!!! Why to create unnecessary dramas???? Its all for One reason, Making TRB rating High for the show!!! Inspite of all these craps there are some good performances also.. They can advertise their performance rather than the gossips Occuring in the show!! But People are Changed by them to watch a show for Gossips !!
Two more Days for weekend..I am Going Home this weekend.. Happy weekend in advance!!! :) :)